7 REMINDERS THAT GRADUATES MIGHT NEED RIGHT NOW




Remember being a fresher and everything was so new and exciting, like seriously. I remember getting excited to attend my first lecture, attend my first fresher's night and meet loads of new people. When third years told me to enjoy it, I rolled my eyes and shrugged a little bit. Enjoy what? 'Doesn’t life last like this forever?' No it does not. 
A few months after graduating from my degree. I feel slightly bitter towards students. Like can I have your liver please because my slightly older body can’t have a sip of alcohol without needed to take the day off work the next day. 
But besides me being bitter about the lack of alcohol I can now intake since being a graduate.  I’m bitter about feeling so naïve about university life. It was put in my head that you attend university and you get a good job and you learn real life experiences. Sadly, you do not. My psychology with sociology degree feels useless. Even though my job has something to do with my degree, I did not need my degree to get it. Degrees mean nothing in the world of work. Its half expected nowadays. Most employees just like you to have a degree, it doesn’t matter what grade you got or even what it’s in. 
Life has suddenly flashed before my eyes. I’m now in my twenties, living on my own in a city that none of my family are in. Half of my friends are unemployed feeling like waste of space (even though they are not) and half of my other friends seem to have it all figured out and me, well I feel lost. Yup, being a graduate totally sucks for most people. This is what is known as graduate blues. The advice I usually get is that ‘Being in your 20’s is hard but just plow through’. I now know that most of my friends are feeling the same way and this period of our time is just graduate bluesness. So here are some friendly reminders for anyone who is feeling low:

1. We are ALL making it up as we go along!   





It’s ok to not know what the hell you are doing. Making up small achievable goals will keep you on track.



 2. Being broke is totally a part of it and it’s ok to be.





I mean, unless you come from a rich family who will pay for everything... yeah scrimping and saving is totally apart of it. Yup, start saving for the rest of your life!



3. You are NEVER alone.





I know that I have lost touch with several of my friends and on time I feel like the whole world is against me. But trust me, you aren’t alone. Your friends still care about you as do your family. You have more people out there than you think.



4. You have plenty of time.





So what if you are not doing a job in your subject area? So what if you can’t choose what masters you want to do right now? So what if you’re not travelling around the earth taking awesome filtered instagramable pictures eh?  SO WHAT IF YOU DON’T KNOW. You have plenty of time to decide what you want to do



5. Your body is not Eighteen anymore.



Gone are the days where you can drink 20 shots, 10 double voddies and coke, 17 pints and still be able to wake up in the morning and attend you’re 9 am lecture without feeling a thing. Nope, it’s ok to be in bed by 10 am and not feel boring. It’s ok to pace yourself. IT’S OK TO BE A LIGHTWEIGHT and it’s ok to want to start taking better care of your body. Plus going to the gym can be used as a hobby to distract you anyway.



6. It’s ok not to be ok.



Yup, you can spend the day crying your eyes out in your pj’s . It’s ok to do that; If you don’t fall in to the trap of self-pitying for too long.



7. When one door closes another one opens!





Such a cliché eh? But it’s true. There are new and exciting opportunities right now and they will find you.  



34 Items To Pack When Going On A City Break


For my 21st I went to Amsterdam for a weekend. Prior to that, for my 18th I went to Dublin for a weekend. A month ago, I went to London for two days. And as much as I enjoyed these holidays looking back. I struggled with certain aspects because I was not prepared for a City holiday.
Amsterdam Ice Bar


When I think of a holiday, I imagine myself lying by a pool with multiple cocktails surrounded by me. That when I was packing for my City holiday... I just was not prepared AT ALL. I have another City holiday booked for next weekend and I thought I would share my essential list.

  1. Passport (all depending)
  2. Money 
  3. ID 
  4. Boarding Pass (all depending)
  5. Train/Bus ticket , Printed Maps of routes (e.g. trains stop to hotel)
  6. Phone
  7. Phone Charger and Power bank (You will go through your battery if you’re taking photos) 
  8. Electronic plug converter (if necessary) 
  9. Earphones 
  10. Debit Card – if you are going abroad, I recommend you let your bank know before you depart, this can avoid charges all dependent on what bank you are with 
  11. Pack bag – YOU WILL BE LIVING FROM IT. 
  12. Small bag – for nights out etc etc. 
  13. Eyewear (Contact lenses, sun glasses, glasses etc..) 
  14. Sun cream (if needed)
  15. Rain mac (You never know with the weather) 
  16. Umbrella 
  17. Underwear
  18. Tops/Cardigan/Hoodie  
  19. Jeans /Skirts/Shorts
  20. Plastic Bag for dirty Laundry 
  21. Comfortable shoes!! 
  22. Plasters for Blisters
  23. Water bottle 
  24. Make-up bag
  25. Foundation
  26. Concealer 
  27. Eyeshadow 
  28. Eyebrow pencil 
  29. Eyeliner
  30.  Lipstick 
  31. Hair brush 
  32. Hair clips 
  33. Bobble’s 
  34. Wet wipes

10 reasons Why Riverdale is addictive


Instead of writing my assignment, I just unintentionally binged watched 7 episodes of Riverdale and now I need to wait sixteen days for the next episode! I suppose in a way this wait will save my uni work (probably not) but still, it sucks.

Before watching Riverdale, I had no idea what to expect or what the plotline was. I was bored, flicking through Netflix and recently I’ve seen on twitter that people were loving this show. Admittedly I was hesitant, I thought that I would watch the first two or three episodes and I’d be like ‘nope, bored’. However, I was hooked.

Riverdale manages to subtly blend in societal, political and psychological issues within the show storyline which I think makes the audience feel a connection. Earlier, I saw a tweet which said: ‘I feel so emotionally attached to Riverdale characters, they’re real ok?’. That just shows how strong a character’s presents can be.

*SPOILER ALERT, SPOILER ALERT* EVERYTHING ON THIS POST IS FEATURING EPISODES UP TO NUMBER 7! PLEASE STOP READING IF YOU DO NOT WANT ANYTHING RUINED. GO WATCH IT AND THEN RETURN.

The first episode begins with a popular jock (Jason Bloom) claimed as being dead, however something doesn’t quite add up? We get told the story by Cole Sprouse character ‘Jughead’. Not long after, a new girl who was extremely wealthy and from New York moves to Riverdale and things begin to change. The way I’ve described it, does not give it justice but here are my 10 reasons why I think Riverdale is addictive:

N U M B E R  O N E: H A P P I L Y  N E V E R  A F T E R?


We are introduced too Betty and Archie. In a rom-com they would more than likely end up together and have a happily ever after. They were literally next door neighbours since they were four years old and had practically grown up together. With the help of Veronica, Betty confess her feelings for Archie. Archie doesn’t love her in the same way and then kisses Veronica (Juicy stuff! – breaking the rules of feminism though V). Nevertheless, we cannot deny that in one point of our lives we have loved someone who has not loved as back. Or one of our friends we love but not romantically has expressed feelings for us but we just don’t feel the same way. I know for me personally, I have been in both Archie and Betty position. I think it’s pretty realistic way of representing relationships, instead of this happy ending bullshit. It makes it easier to connect with Archie, Betty and Veronica!


N U M B E R  T W O: S L U T  S H A M I N G


What great film brings up the issue of slut- shaming in schools? You guessed it right, MEAN GIRLS! It turns out the football guys kept a book of girls in the school and created a point system. Depending on who the girl was and how far they got with them resulted in a score. Veronica, goes out on a date with Charlie. He is the football Captain and is known for being a player. Regardless, on their date, he and Veronica kiss. The next day at school, an Instagram selfie of Charlie and Veronica goes viral with a maple syrup splurge all over her face. We see a shot of Veronica scrolling through the comments calling her a slut as where to the guys, it was just a game to them. Veronica being extremely pissed off, demands that Charlie takes the photo down but instead he just laughs in her face telling her that she is just making it worse for herself. Betty convinces Veronica that they will expose Charlie in her newspaper and later found out that the football boys have done this to a lot of girls but they felt the need to stay quiet as no-one would believe them. In their investigation, Betty sees her sister name their besides Jason and this is when she demands justice. The girls hatch a plan and end up drugging Charlie in a hot tub and get him to confess that he and Veronica did not go any further than kissing and recording it, sending it around the school. The book ends up being on the front cover of the newspaper and the coach is forced to kick his own son of the team. You could argue that the girls had their victory.

N U M B E R  T H R E E: T E A C H E R / S T U D E N T  R O M A N C E


Admittedly, a teacher and student romance is an overused cliché but yet it’s so scandalous and dramatic that I kind of dig it. Archie and his music teacher are at the scene of the crime doing naughty things there. They hear a gunshot which is important to the Jason bloom investigation. His teacher does not want him to come forward as she would then lose her job. Archie is conflicted, but he knows that he needs to do the right thing and in the end comes forward, but lies about the reason he is there. Jughead sees the pair making out in the music room but tells Archie he would not tell anyone. Later, whilst Jughead and Betty were investigating their story. The individual who shot the gun, for exchange for their silence tells them that they saw her car at the scene of the crime, yet no-one else was aware that she was there. Betty puts 2 + 2 together and writes it down in her diary. She later confronts Archie when seeing Archie, Archies Dad and His teacher at the diner, and begins to investigate her. It was unclear if the teacher was in fact in-love with Archie, or if she was playing mind games. Nevertheless, the romance was cut short when Betty’s mum read her diary and threatens to go to the police. The teacher is allowed to run away, leaving Archie broken hearted.


N U M B E R  F O U R: T H E  N A R C I S S I S T I C  M O T H E R


Both Blossom’s and Coopers seem to have mothers who want to control their children. One particular scene stands out for me. Betty put on her sister's red lipstick and her mother stood behind her in the mirror and vigorously wiped it off and told her pink suit her better. Both mothers are blinded by their own selfish motivates and are oblivious to see how they’re behaviour effects their daughters. Cheryl Blossom mum even tries to prevent her from speaking at her own brother funeral in case she embarrasses the family. Yet, even though these women make my skin crawl. You can’t deny you do not know someone who is similar to this? Not as extreme. But at one time I’m sure a parental figure has to have things their own way.


N U M B E R  F I V E: L G B T  R E P R E S E N T A T I O N


Who did not fall in love with Kevin Keller? He’s an amazing character and appears to be a good friend too Betty and Veronica. He’s openly gay and he’s chilled about it. There wasn’t a big reveal. It was subtle. He is also the Sheriff son and I think the Sheriff is one of the only parents (apart from Fred) who isn’t a dick to his child. He even talks about his son pulling a lad and warns him about being careful with men. There wasn’t a big emphasis on him being gay, it was a part of him which he was proud of but it didn’t define him as a person and I think it’s an important message to send out. So well done Riverdale

N U M B E R  S I X: D E A T H 💀


A morbid reason really. But the show portrays a really clear picture about how things change and are never quite the same after someone you know passes away. And I think, most human beings who have lost a loved one can connect and relate to that.


N U M B E R  S E V E N: M E N T A L  H E A L T H  S T I G M A


Polly, who is Betty's sister is believed that she had gone away to a ‘safe’ place after she tried to kill herself. This was a cover story invented by Bettys parents to be able to hide her pregnancy. Nevertheless, people in school were still mean to Betty and would often tease her about her sister’s mental state and then her own. In episode six, Betty even starts to question her own sanity which Jughead responds ‘we are all crazy’. Sadly, mental health was seen as a weakness.

N U M B E R  E I G H T: A L C O H O L I S M


In episode seven, it’s revealed that Jughead dad is an alcoholic. He turns to drink and becomes aggressive or manipulative to Jughead. Blaming his circumstances on other people, instead of himself. And falsely promising his son that he will get a job and he will win back his wife. However, he fails to do so. Jughead stated to Archie that he will not leave his dad. But, the episode is emotional. Here we see a parent and child roles reversed. And sadly, this happens to a lot of people. Jughead gets called in to the police station and is questioned through his circumstances. The sheriff even says that children who grow up with a ‘dead beat dad’ and have a record like him are often guilty. Luckily, Archie’s dad (Fred) saves the day and gives Jughead an alibi to protect him. His dad later turns up to police station drunk, shouting about how unfair it was for the police to try and pin the investigation on him. This is truly powerful stuff which allows you to empathise with Jughead and sort of want to save him. But at the end of the episode we see Jason jacket in Jugheads’ dad wardrobe. Let’s pray there is a good reason why it’s there and that none of them are the killer!


N U M B E R  N I N E: T H E  S O U T H S I D E


The ‘bad’ crowd. The ‘them’ vs ‘us’ scenario. The people who have transgressed from society and are a menace. The type of group you should avoid. The rebels who do not stick to rules. In Riverside, these are people who have low socioeconomic status. Throughout the series we see a misrepresentation of rich vs poorer. And we can all fit in one of the categorise.


N U M B E R  T E N: A T T R A C T I V E   C H A R A C T E R S


Lastly, I mean just look at the above and tell me that isn’t a reason to watch Riverside?
   

Question: Who do you think killed Jason Bloom? xo

TOP 5 FEMINIST FRIENDLY DISNEY FILMS:

Put your hands in the air and shake it like you just don’t care if you are super excited about Beauty and the Beast being released soon? Emma Watson is a freaking babe, and most of you may fan girl over her in the Harry Potter Franchise. I fan girl over her, mostly to do with her gender equality side. Due to Watson feminist side, critics have of course criticised her for playing a role which isn’t very female empowering?




As most of you are probably are aware, most Disney princess aren’t very feminist friendly. However, what I have read is that Watson has given Belle more of a back story – she even builds a wash machine so Belle has more time to read!


Nevertheless, reading criticising articles about Disney princess inspired me to write a Top 5 Disney Feminist Friendly films! If you’ve been on my blog page before you would be aware that I am no stranger in ranking Disney films in weird ways, check out my previous posts if you have time (5Eerie Origins from Disney Renaissance Era and 5 Dark Disney Animal Origin Stories). So here is my Top 5 Feminist Friendly Disney Films:


N U M B E R  O N E:  M U L A N


Well she was as swift as the coursing river and had the force of a great typhoon with all the strength of a raging fire. But seriously, this woman who was brought up in a culture where it was her ‘duty’ to be silent and get married and have a shit load of kids. Decides to be like ‘fuck that shit’ and takes her father’s place in to the army and in the end saves all of freaking china! I’m pretty sure she is the only Disney female character to challenge gender stereotypes so openly but If that doesn’t empower females, then what the hell will?


N U M B E R  T W O: P O C A H O N T A S



Does anyone remember the scene where good old Pocahontas rejects a guy by saying ‘it’s not you, it’s my path’ speech? I mean way to swap traditional gender roles! Not only does Pocahontas stay single; she doesn’t need to be saved by anyone or anything. She is the one to save the guy that she loves. She doesn’t end up with him because she has another calling in life, that she chooses to do. She isn’t afraid to be exposed or alone. She’s happy with who she is and that’s fantastic!


N U M B E R  T H R E E: 1 0 1  D A L M A T I A N S


‘Whaaaaaaaaaaaaat?’ You might think. A film about dogs as feminist friendly? Yes, yes it is. Perdy was Pongo’s equal throughout the film. Unlike the book, Perdy was a dumb dog and a ‘lesser’ character throughout. But portrayed in the film, Perdy was just as important as Pongo. In their relationships there was a constant balance of power and love and I think that is an important message to give to both sexes’ from a young age.


N U M B E R  F O U R: T A N G L E D


If you didn’t laugh when Rapunzel hit Flynn Rider over the head with a frying pan when she first met him, then can we even be friends? I mean, instead of just letting a guy up in the tower and instantly falls in love with him. She fights and is reluctant at first. Which lets be honest is a more realistic approach. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not going to hit a guy over the head with a frying pan when I next go on a date. But let’s be real, this ‘love at first sight’ is bullshitty and I think seeing Flynn and Rapunzel relationship progress is a much healthier way to teach children about relationships


N U M B E R  F I V E: T H E  P R I N C E S S  A N D  T H E  F R O G


I’m pretty sure, Tiana is the only Disney princess to actually wake up in the morning and decided to start her own business? Her dream wasn’t getting married in a castle or wanting to be saved by some rich prince but to own a restaurant which in the end, she eventually does and names it after herself. That’s pretty sweet.





I hope you enjoyed that, which is your favourite Disney film? Xo 

Dyspraxia Awarness


Three weeks ago, I was diagnosed with dyspraxia. If you’re reading this and you think ‘What the hell is Dyspraxia?’ You are not alone. I had no clue what that was or why I had it? All I knew was that it meant I was eligible for ‘Disability Allowance’ at University and that it’s similar to dyslexia but it’s not dyslexia. The only reason I had a diagnosis of Dyspraxia because I was at a Dyslexia screening. But since I plucked up the courage to tell friends/employers/family, a lot of people didn’t know and the only comment which was made was oh isn’t that clumsy boy syndrome?’.


At first, I felt extremely sad when I found out; I always felt a bit different and a bit ‘slow’ compared to everyone else and to finally have an explanation why… it just made me feel low to figure it out. And then I felt really angry. How did I manage to go through my GCSE, A - LEVELS and Two Years of University without anyone knowing? HOW?! I felt like the school system had let me down. I mean I didn’t even know what dyspraxia was (which is sad because it actually 5-10% of the population have it) so of course, I decided to google it…


Googles definition of dyspraxia is: ‘a developmental disorder of the brain in childhood causing difficulty in activities requiring coordination and movement.Which, for me needed a further explanation so I decided to explore more.


What I gathered, is that the signals which are sent out from my brain to my body gets muddled up which effects my organisation skills, motor and gross skills, social skills, sense of direction and thought process. Sadly, my brain works x10 harder compared to the general population to do the simplest of tasks. And the myth that you ‘just grow out’ of dyspraxia is utter bollocks.


Before I found out I was dyspraxic, I honestly did not understand why I wasn’t able to cook, or why I struggled to construct sentences or why I just randomly tripped or why I can’t control the volume of my voice. I guess I was just labelled as odd and quirky which was something that people could be able to laugh at, instead of realising that it was actually a serious problem. In all honesty, I still feel inadequate compared to other people.
Bad attempted of shortbread I tried to make...


It was painful finding out, looking back at every situation where dyspraxia explained the unexplainable events and reframing the past 20 years of my life and understanding why when I was a kid I couldn’t do my shoe laces or why people would ask me to explain what I meant. OR WHY I COULD NEVER TELL MY LEFTS FROM MY RIGHT, OR WHY MY LISTENING SKILLS ARE AWFUL.


It turned out a lot of my weakness and things which I was ashamed off was because of a learning difficulty that I did not even know I have. Which before my diagnosis I had never even heard off but yet it’s affected my whole life. It affected my self-confidence, my relationship with my parents and my friendships.

Sadly, I faced discrimination majority of everyday and for years I didn't even realise until the other day when I was talking to my friend quite loudly and I lost my balance (which is really normal for me anyway) but then a woman in a shop got annoyed at me and accused me of being drunk (I did not touch a drop of alcohol that day) and I apologised and I actually said that I was dyspraxic and It was an accident.


Do you want to know her reply was?


‘ t h a t  I s  n o t  a n  e x c u s e ,  my cousin has dyspraxia and he isn’t loud, you're just drunk’


No two people with dyspraxia are the same, just as depression it affects people different and it doesn’t define people who they are.


I managed to get a 2:1 last year overall without any extra help; just hard work and determination, I work in care where I have to use my fine and gross motor skills all the time. People with dyspraxia struggle more but there are some positives to it! Before my diagnosis everyone would say how insane my long-term memory was and now I know why.


So in conclusion to my rant, dyspraxia is something biological which you cannot change. We struggle, but with determination and the right strategies be able to do ok. We just need a bit more time and recognition because simple things don’t come easier to us… And schools should do more to raise awareness.



Is there any weakness in your life which you were ashamed off and what do you do to try and overcome them? Do you know anyone with Dyspraxia? xox

17 Hilarious Quotes From Rajesh Koothrappali

*If you haven’t seen The Big Bang Theory I suggest you go and watch it or if you haven’t watch season 5 yet here is your SPOILER WARNING!!*


You have been warned so if you are reading this, I have warned you and you’ve chosen to keep reading... 


Since I was Eight years old I was obsessed with Charmed. For anyone who has watched season eight of Charmed you’d have seen Kaley Cuoco playing a badass Billie. So once Charmed finished and I found out Kaley was going to be in The Big Bang Theory, I couldn’t wait to watch it. Unfortunately, Penny (Kaley Cuoco) is one of my least favourite characters throughout the show. However, I absolutely adore Raj Koothrappali (Kunal Nayyar).

Source: http://www.fanforum.com/f312/rajesh-koothrappali-kunal-nayyar-6-because-he-just-wanted-do-something-beautiful-63116904/ 

Season 5, In my opinion has the best storylines. Leonard and Penny get back together. We see Amy and Sheldon relationship develop. Howard goes to space and gets married! The rest of the characters’ love life seems to progress whilst Raj is the ‘Single & Alone ‘friend which I’m sure once in you feel like you can relate too. Here are my top 17 Raj Koothrappali Quotes which made me laugh:

17. ‘I’ve often pictured you guiding a young boy into manhood.’ (Episode Twelve: The Shiny Trinket Manoeuvre)

Source: http://giphy.com/gifs/raj-koothrappali-WEKrH28QuPIas 

16. ‘Still my first choice for an ankle tattoo. Or a dolphin, I go back and forth.’ (Episode Nine: The Ornithophobia Diffusion)

Source: http://wifflegif.com/tags/37481-ok-bye-gifs 

15. ‘Now who’s dying of jealousy? Oh, it’s you.’ (Episode Eighteen: The Werewolf Transformation)

Source: http://giphy.com/gifs/big-bang-theory-forever-alone-1P9G48R9mdLpu 

14. ‘He’s the Hindu version of Cupid, but way better, because he rides a giant parrot.’ (Episode One: The Skank Reflex)

Source: http://giphy.com/search/raj-big-bang 

13. ‘If I had one, it would be Brown Dynamite’ (Episode Fifteen: The Friendship Contraction)

Source: https://www.tumblr.com/login_required/voltage-is-life/136520598250 

12. ‘I had pee his pants.’ (Episode Seven: The Good Guy Fluctuation)

Source: http://www.indiatvnews.com/buzz/life/rajesh-koothrapali-the-big-bang-theory-funny-moments-159.html 

11. ‘No, I’m not gay. If anything, I’m metrosexual.’ (Episode Twenty: The Transporter Malfunction)

Source: http://wanna-joke.com/tag/the-big-bang-theory/page/12/ 

10. ‘This grasshopper is kicking my ass-hopper.’ (Episode Twenty-Two: The Stag Convergence)

Source: http://giphy.com/gifs/raj-koothrappali-XBbmIktjuLqlW 

9. ‘Totally. What’s wrong with cap sleeves? If you have the right figure for it, they’re adorable.’ (Episode Eight: The Isolation Permutation)

Source: http://www.folomojo.com/mowgli-apu-raj-we-may-not-see-them-often-but-we-can-never-forget-them-heres-why/ 

8. ‘Did you forget what Penny did to you? It took you two years and defiling my sister to turn that frown upside down.’ (Episode Thirteen: The Recombination Hypothesis)

Source: http://sortedfood.com/blog/18-problems-you-will-only-understand-if-you-too-are-a-foodie/ 

7. ‘When Gandhi advocated his philosophy of nonviolence, I bet he didn’t know how much fun it was killing stuff.’ (Episode Nineteen: The Weekend Vortex) 

Source: http://giphy.com/gifs/raj-koothrappali-Jz0zCoYRq9znG 

6. ‘Wow. You’re not only our first astronaut. You’re also the first one of us to kick a girl out of bed. You’re like a rock star.’ (Episode Five: The Russian Rocket Reaction)

Source: http://giphy.com/gifs/raj-koothrappali-DEy2xTFLiP0n6 

5. ‘Can I pour you some wine? I think you’ll enjoy it. The traditional choice with Peking duck is a Sauvignon Blanc, but Siri suggested an off-dry Riesling. I wasn’t sure, but I didn’t want to have an argument with her in the middle of Trader Joe’s. Now, what should we put Siri in for dinner? Leopard, sparkles, or to paraphrase Coco Chanel, you can never go wrong with a little black case. Siri, play some smooth jazz. Oh, my God, Kenny G? This woman can read me like a book. I can’t believe I bought my soul mate at Glendale Galleria.’ (Episode Fourteen: The Beta Test Initiation) 

Source: http://forum.the-big-bang-theory.com/topic/6466-2016-sag-awards/?page=4 

4. ‘You know who I blame for my loneliness? The United States of America. Your movies and your TV shows promised streets paved with beautiful blonde women with big bazongas.’ (Episode Four: The Wiggly Finger Catalyst)

Source: http://favim.com/image/49447/ 

3. 'But e-excuse me, I have something to say. None of you may realize it, but I was very much looking forward to this weekend. It was gonna be like the old days, the four of us hanging out playing video games before you guys all got girlfriends. Do you have any idea what it’s like to be the only one without a girlfriend? Even if I get one someday, I’ll still be the guy who got a girl AFTER SHELDON COOPER! (Episode Nineteen: The Weekend Vortex) 

Source: https://uk.pinterest.com/pin/131871095310920008/ 

2. ' You’re nervous? I’ve been stress-eating for four days. Look at me. I’m wearing my fat pants. (Episode Twenty-Four: The Countdown Reflection) 

Source: http://giphy.com/gifs/raj-koothrappali-mY1lPoPI0iw7u 

1. ‘I think back to all the good times we had, like, uh, when we went camping and spent that night telling each other all our secrets. I told him I’m addicted to pedicures and he told me he lost his virginity to his cousin.’  (Episode Twenty-Two: The Stag Convergence)

Source: http://giphy.com/search/raj-koothrappali 



Who is your favourite Character from The Big Bang Theory? What was your favourite quote? xo






Goals For 2017

Happy New Year My Lovelies! I really hope that you all have a great time getting rid of 2016 – I know I did. I spent New Year’s Eve playing board games whilst drinking alcohol whilst staring at some stranger’s cat and stealing their food. Even though it was really fun, if you had told me two years ago I would of spent New Year’s Eve playing board games with a bunch of people I didn’t know, I would have laughed in your face, so it just goes to show how people can change over time.

I’m not one for ‘resolutions’. Mostly because I think they restrict when you can change and I think it’s important to realise that we are always changing. However, Goals! – Goals I am 100% on board with. So here is what I’m hoping to achieve in 2017.

G O A L  O N E: G R A D U A T E !

I’m currently in my third year at UWE and even though I’ve been pleased with my grades so far you don’t know what’s around the corner. Hopefully, 2017 is the year where I graduate my degree in Psychology with Sociology.


G O A L  T W O: S A V E M O N E Y

First year, I was disadvantaged as my student loan did not cover every cost (bills, rent etc.) that when I was working I was paying them with the money I earned. Now hopefully, I can start saving my money and actually start preparing for adulthood (ish)

G O A L  T H R E E : D R I V I N G

Before moving away for uni, I decided that going on holiday was a better experience than learning how to drive. Which, I defiantly don’t regret as majority of my friends who could drive and moved away for uni didn’t use their car that much and ended up selling it. But once I graduate, hopefully I will start learning how to drive and who knows maybe I’ll pass but I wouldn’t hold my breath on it!

G O A L  F O U R: B A N D S  & F E S T I V A L S 

In 2014, I made it a goal that I would make it a year to remember by seeing more live music and just having a good time, I completed this mission. Throughout the years, I’ve forgotten to keep doing so. In 2016, the only two bands I saw live were Biffy Clyro and The Hunna and I guess I think 2014 me would slap me in the face if that was it. I have never, ever ever ever attended a festival and people who meet me are like (whaaaaat?) but hopefully this year, it will change.

G O A L  F I V E:  W A T C H  T H E  M A R V E L  T V  A N D  F I L M S  I N  O R D E R

I cannot stand watching things out of chronological logical order, I hate trying to figure shit out. So this is why I’m happy some random person on the internet made this chart and throughout the year of 2017 I will watch it in this way. You might think why? I’m not really a big fan of comic books but there again I’ve never actually sat and read them but the marvel TV shows and films that I have watched I’ve always really enjoyed but then my friends will say and this one connects to this one because of reason X and Y and I’m sat there like um… 


G O A L  S I X: V O L U N T E E R

Starting uni when I was 18 was an eye-opener. A-lot of people on my course were mature students and they’ve already went a year abroad and volunteered and sounds like they did some incredible things as where I was like ‘yeah, last year I was doing my A-Levels and this year I’m here’ and even though there is nothing wrong with that at all. I feel that, I want to spend some time out volunteering and getting experience in the field which I want to do.

G O A L  S E V E N: D R I N K  M O R  E  W A T E R

Before uni, water is all that I would drink in the house. But eh, there is something wrong with Bristol tap water that I just avoid drinking it – well no more. That needs to stop. I’m sure everyone knows how amazing water is for you and I just need to attempt to drink at least half of what is recommended!

G O A L  E I G H T: S O C A L I S E  M O R E

Recently, I feel so busy that I just don’t spend time with my friends or family or as much time as I would like. Hopefully, this summer that will change. And we will plan things and do stuff but we will see!



So, is anyone setting any goals for 2017 and if so what kind of things? What are you trying to hope to achieve this year? xo